RitL banners are up

Check em out: http://www.recoveryinthelifestyle.org/banners.htmlYa know, I think I'm getting pretty good at this banner thing, if I do say so myself ;)

Just chuggin' along...

Hey'all - or is that? Hey, ya'll? I can't ever translate accurate from Southun' to English ;)

I'm back to the grind now that my little vacation is over - and it was just a lovely time. Ultimately, not all road trips are created equal - as I think our smiling doggy and the rainbow can readily demonstrate ;)Now that I'm back, it's back to work. I seem to have so much piled on my "todo" that I need two or three of me to, Git er dun!

Ok, that's the last of the faux 'Bama talk. At least for a while. :)

With that all said, I want to announce the launch of a project I've been chipping away at for several months - the new web site for Recovery in the Lifestyle. Ultimately we were just changing it from a .com site to a .org domain, but I felt that the fellowship deserved a site that looked more professional, so I really wanted to take some time and get it right. And after all my futz'n - and some very helpful proof reading from friends, it is officially "alive."

If any of you who read here have websites, I would hope that you might consider linking to the domain in order to help spread the message. I did some banners for it.

RitL is a worthy resource. It's a new fellowship, and is open to anyone who is any form of recovery (or in a relationship with someone who is) and also lives in some aspect of the BDSM lifestyle. How a person defines any of that, really is up to them.

Ok, enough of all that, back into the fray with a few other projects that I really need to get caught up on. Either way, I'm sure a few of you will be happy to see some new updates that will push that TV self-milking image off of the opening page. At least I think I will. Nothing is quite so disconcerting as when I go to a website expecting to see or read something sexy and instead there's some guy's dilly dally hanging right there. Not to judge... but that's just not my thing.

In other news... does anyone in NYC know a thing or two about assembling an IKEA table?

Whatta Faker!

Sometimes celebrity fakes are just good fun, and this past week, "TechnoCancer" @ the sickpixel blog posted some really fun pictures of a few beautiful celebs (Jewel Staite, Tina Fey) in various yummy fetish outfits on the KG forum - link.

I was particularly inspired by one of Emma Watson (the young actress from Harry Potter - who seems to actually have a bit of an actual flair for fetishy clothing) - and had to give it a bit of my personal polish to take it from a 10 to an 11. ;)One of the most critical parts of photo retouching work is keeping it realistic enough. All too often people make celebs look so smooth that they get a plastic or waxy look to them. It's not that some celebs (such as Nicole Kidman) have not actually done that with botox - but to make a good photoshop fake, a bit of natural flaws really help. If you edit it too much, and you lose believability. For those who might not be able to spot the differences in mine (other than the obvious lipstick) - I put up a side by side. I'm curious if you can see all 5 areas I retouched ;)

Great work TechnoCancer. I look forward to more!

BTW - I'm heading away for a week vaca tomorrow late, so don't panic if there aren't any updates. Just consider me locked up and behaving. And that'll probably be pretty close to the truth anyway ;)

Daily Distraction : Yasmin Le Bon

In many ways, she defines gorgeous. Not just a stick figure, abandoned modeling at her peak in order to get married and have a family. She's always made smarter remarks than just about any other model out there. Clearly loves her family. Clearly loves life. I still remember seeing her picture all over the girl magazines from the early to mid 80s.

It's simple really, she just is beautiful. Keira Knightley reminds me of her a lot, though Yas has just a bit more meat on her bones, and Keira's hair isn't quite as straight.

And is still enough of a rebel to say this about the UK smoking ban: "I'm not good at rules. I only started smoking since the ban. Tell me I can't do something and I'll do it." - The Guardian (UK), 9/5/9Want more info/pics? Check out her unofficial site: yasminlebon.net

OT: Video Games

Old School - Adventure

New School - Halo 3

There was nothing like heart pounding excitement of making sure your square didn't get gobbled by the duck... *cough* I mean dragon.

We're not the only ones with issues

This was one of only a very few funny bits from Comedy Central's Michael & Michael Have Isssues - but it was a *VERY* funny bit.

Michael & Michael Have Issues
Super Mattress Sale
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Joke of the Day Stand-Up Comedy Free Online Games

Prostate Milking Video

There seems to always been some confusion in BDSM circles whenever the term "milking" is used. Within chastity groups, it's pretty quickly accepted to mean prostate milking, but within most other groups, it means to be masturbated to orgasm.

And frankly, there are more non-chastity folks out there still. Lots more. So I think it we want to be clear about it, I think it best to go by the full name "prostate milking" or "prostate massage."

Prostate stimulation or massage can be quite intense in it's own right. Even if full milking isn't achieved - the sensations are extremely intense. I definitely wouldn't call them entirely pleasant, nor entirely unpleasant. If I had to compare it to anything, it's a bit like after orgasm over stimulation of my glands. A part of me might hate that, but a part of me is still going wild with sensations.

If you want to see how it can affect someone, watch this video clip from a Japanese FD video. She's definitely and purposefully pushing right on his prostate. I wish I knew what they were saying, but I kinda like not knowing - that way I can imagine it too ;) Now to be clear, though you can do it that way if you want - but it definitely does not require any stimulation of the penis at all. As the videos below show, prostate massage can be accomplished even while still locked in a chastity device with no stimulation of the penis at all.

Now, from everything I've learned about it, I know that it is something that often takes some very real and long practice getting used to the sensations before full prostate milking or even prostate orgasm can occur. Just getting any results can take a while to relax enough to achieve. I know of some folks who say it takes them an hour to accomplish. Though as you get more used to it, it supposedly can take as little as 10 or 15 minutes to fully empty a well trained sub's prostate. Though that is depending lots of factors, such as how long the period of denial since the last orgasm, and the familiarity with the sensations, etc.

Anyway, I hope you enjoy these videos, I think this CD makes it very clear that full prostate milking can be accomplished while in chastity. Note: Some aspects are certainly optional, such as the stockings and perhaps the licking it up after. The shaved legs, chastity belt, the full makeup and bracelet are more likely required, though that might just vary depending on your Mistress' orders personal preferences.Embedding didn't work, here are direct links: Front View & Back view

Epic Hot & Epic Cold

First, Epic Hot:
What a weekend. I was out of town last weekend at a conference that (nope, I'm not making this up) was chok-filled with pretty women smoking. I'm not telling ya'll where either, but I'll just say it's an "anonymous" thing. Is it "chock" full? Or "chok" full? And btw, WTF is a chok? And why is it full?

Anyway, I was reminded again of just how I can spend hours just staring at pretty women smoking. My smoking fetish started in 8th grade, but I didn't develop the habit of just watching them and their habit back in my sophomore year of High School. Back in the old days... the campus allowed the kids to smoke. It seems like a dream compared to today's anti-smoking world, but alas I swear it's true.

The students couldn't smoke in the building but they could smoke anywhere outside. The most heavily populated area between classes was the breezeway (which was a 20' corridor between the newer HS building and the older one) and pretty much anytime you went through it, the experience was a bit like going in and out of a club today - where all the smokers are sequestered outside. There were a few other nooks and crannies where smokers gathered, and I remember one particular spot that I could see outside the window from my AP European History class. I got an B the first quarter and then a D, A and finished with a C - it was easy to get an A when the girls weren't just camped out there smoking like they were in the fall and spring. Plus, I was a bit more motivated after a D. Ugh. Anyways, I was really reminded of my excitement each day as I rushed to that class, desperate to ensure I got one of two seats that allowed for a good view.

I still remember most of their names. Sarah, Deanie and Trisha... and later joined by Monica. She'd been such a goodie girl, what a shock to see her join them. She didn't last for long with that group - I'm not sure why. But either way... what a fond memory. Ya know, now that I think about it, if the girls were allowed to smoke on campus in 8th grade, I'd probably have watched then too. Instead they had to be all crafty and hide, and catching them smoking was a greater challenge, not that I didn't have some successes.

So, a big thank you to the lovely ladies this past weekend for inspiring the recollection ;)

Now, the Epic Cold:
One would think that I'd be smarter with my communications. My love and I each have our soft spots that we have a hard time hearing criticism about - doesn't everyone? This past week I was in such a good mood after the weekend, and a few other positive things that I was being silly and overly casual about something - and ended up hurting my love's feelings in the middle of what had been a fun night.

Meh.

We're all human, and I forgive myself it. But I just had to dump that here in case ya'll think I'm super human and perfect. Because I'm not.

My hair is usually though ;)

Definitely OT

This is the only time I've ever found a recording of a concert I went to, and it was the best Floyd show I've ever seen: 11-1-87

2 Discs worth: MP3 quality - 195MB zip file @ hotfile.com

Enjoy.

Next order of business

Cleaning up. Turns out that ImageShak seems to lose images from time to time. I don't know why they lose the ones they do - it doesn't seem by aging stuff out, or by traffic (or lack of it) it doesn't seem to make any sense, but it does seem to affect ones that were uploaded in batches. Which means suddenly all the images that were linked to from a given blog entry just disappear.

As was the case with the Corazón marchito blog entry. And that's just annoying. Especially cause it was such a cute little flick - and the smoking in it so perfectly pushed my fetish buttons.

Anyways, I can't restore the full images to imageshak all the time, so I guess if they're gone in the future they're gone. But I do want the look of the page to be correct, so I had to redo the thumbnail images. Feel free to give me a heads up as a comment or e-mail if you see any missing images. Either way, it's annoying. I normally host the small thumb images on my server, but I don't want to eat up all my server traffic with you fappers out there. *shrug* Stupid imageshak! I demand a refund. Oh wait... its a free account.

Another APB

I've been pretty remiss of late with updates and taking care of things on this blog. Sorry for that folks. Life's been busy lately, and on top of that I've got a crappy little head cold. Meh.

Either way, I'm a huge believer in being a man of my word (even in drag) so all I can say is sorry for the delay(s) with these items.

Most overdue is the APB for Mr. schurupak from the KG forums. He's curious if anyone can ID this woman very likely from the 80s. We think it was originally featured as an NJRS video.

Update: The woman has been identified by "Adam" as: Peta Toppano, an Australian actress. He thinks the images are from a series called "Return to Eden" - where she played a bitch who was regularly dressed in leather. How yummy is that? :)

Work = business time

I just wish their show was as non-stop funny as their stand up.