One of the blogs that I've always kept an eye out there is Ms. Marie, a lifestyle dominant female. She's been blogging for about 18 months now, and at the start she was VERY prolific - averaging over 20 posts a month. But that's slowed over the last year. Greatly. With only 2 total posts from July to September. I had feared that this lovely Mistress was burned out (which happens, all too often to bloggers.)
Fortunately, she's continued to post, and reports that she and her sissy husband still play regularly - though she just hasn't been blogging as often. And I am grateful for that. Its been very interesting over the last year and change to see how the style and tone of it all has evolved. And when I logged in there today and saw the picture she posted from last Thursday, wow. I just had to come over here and gush a bit, because... OMG, that's hot. The corsets, the strapon, the super sexy raven black hair - *melt*
I like their blog for a slew of reasons, and I find their relationship to be one that I'm very happy to see and read out there on the web. They're a wonderful example of an FLR. The relationship has it's moments of real Femdom, it is almost always fun, it seems fully SSC, and most of all it is loving.
It doesn't hurt that she's beautiful and he is fit - and often quite neatly corseted. She sissifies him similarly to the way I fantasize about it. He's fit, but not a petite guy, and he keeps his arm hair, but shaves his legs. Sometimes she directs him to paint his nails, but for the most part, I think he could be out and about in the vanilla world as a "man's man" and that would be something I'd want, no matter how tight laced my corset gets. I also respect that they have a private life. It's totally ok with me if someone wants to wear a slave collar, but I also like when people don't feel that they need to put their sexuality out there for everyone else. It isn't their business, right? Along those lines, they have their own private basement dungeon, plus it seems enough property to get out into the wilderness when it is warm enough - though that actual temperature might be debatable. We have definite common interests on things too, and though chastity is a rare focus of their lifestyle, discipline, strapons and "somewhat reluctant" sissy training are very regular topics.
It's not just that we're like minded that brings me to her blog. There are some definite differences in interests too. Ms.Marie has talked about seeking a FemSub to join them, and perhaps cuckolding. The former is something I'd probably enjoy, the latter is a total buzz kill for me. Sometimes I wish her hubby would post his thoughts, or maybe have his own blog, where we could get his insights - though its likely I just want to be able to vicariously imagine I'm him. And other times I'm very glad it's solely the female dominant voice.
And really, what's not to like about all that? I am very happy that they've found their dynamic, and I'm grateful that Ms. Marie shares their lifestyle with us. I wish them both the best on their journey.
BTW, a little side rant... What's up with so many people who seem not interested in taking care of our physical health? If you are like me, and want mainstream society respect us, perhaps we could be a good example by ourselves more than the average. We don't all have to look like super athletes, but if we want people to see us as mentally healthy, isn't trying to be physically healthy a good reference point?